Choppy Waters

Choppy Waters

Generally speaking, by this time of the summer, I find myself facing an overwhelming desire to simply escape. I’m tired of working! I’m tired of thinking! And this year in particular, I’m tired of Covid-19, politics, and especially worrying about all there is to worry about. So when I read about the disciples in a boat on a lake, my first association was to languid afternoons floating in a canoe or paddling a kayak—or, to be a bit more adventurous, whooshing along in a sailboat on the bay. I love being near or on the water, particularly when I can watch boats of all sorts come and go. But after I was done with my little fantasy, I realized that Peter and the others weren’t exactly on vacation! Generally, when they were in a boat, they were working to make a living, or to gather food for themselves and their families. And this was no placid moonlight sail. In the middle of the night, a fierce storm descends, which happens to regularly near bodies of water. Staying in the boat is now about survival. To add to the drama, Jesus is sited walking on the water, and in their fear they assume he is a ghost. (Why wouldn’t they?) Jesus seeks to reassure them, but Peter, doing what Peter does, decides to push the envelope. “If it is really you, tell me to come to you across the water.” I’m reasonably certain that this had anything but a calming effect on his fishing companions, who were probably happy to see him get out of the boat.

Being crammed together in a small boat which is tossing on stormy waters seems to be about as good a metaphor to describe our current existence as anything, The question is, how can we deal with our fear?

Noting that our entire world is very much like a small boat in the cosmos, Buddhist monk and  teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, as quoted in a recent Daily Meditation from Richard Rohr, spoke of what it takes to avoid a sense of panic in the face of danger, as based on his experience in Vietnam:

I like to use the example of a small boat crossing the Gulf of Siam. In Vietnam, there are many people, called boat people, who leave the country in small boats. Often the boats are caught in rough seas or storms, the people may panic, and boats can sink. But if even one person aboard can remain calm, lucid, knowing what to do and what not to do, he or she can help the boat survive. His or her expression—face, voice—communicates clarity and calmness, and people have trust in that person. They will listen to what he or she says. One such person can save the lives of many.

Clearly, as much as we would like to remain calm, there are many situations where we simply don’t know what to do. But gathering a sense of calmness in the face of distress is certainly an act of faith, even if we feel we are “faking it” to some degree. Or, alternatively, we might turn toward the person who possesses certitude born of knowledge about what is needed at the moment. In the couple of boat stories presented in the Gospels, Jesus is the one who remains calm as the disciples are flailing about.

But what are we to make of Peter’s decision to get out of the boat, after effectually daring Jesus: “If it’s you, tell me to come to you! And he does pull it off for a little bit, until he succumbs to fear of the wind and the waves. Eventually, he does make it to Jesus.

Fear has a way of making us feel frozen and trapped. It also can make us feel impulsive and wanting to run away to a different place. But sometimes, the right thing to do is to just get out of the boat! I have told the story from my own experience of praying with this piece of scripture while trying to discern a major change in my life. For me, getting out of the boat meant leaving behind my commitment to a life which seemed in many ways perfect for me. Yet I couldn’t quell the storm within which kept me restless and unhappy. Finally, as I imagined myself in place of Peter, I realized that I needed to get out of my boat and in the hope that I would still find Jesus ready to embrace me. And so, I did.  It wasn’t easy, but it was one of the best decisions I ever made. 

Whether we feel tossed about in the wind and waves, or dead still in the water, we can often experience the greatest challenges we face as being beyond our control. Often, they are. But in or out of the boat, we cannot deny what we fear, and are almost always better off if we decide to face what makes us afraid. Yet life continues to present us with choices, albeit difficult choices which should be made with careful discernment. We might wish that God would simply tell us what we should do. But like Elijah, we may find that God is rarely direct and dramatic in revealing the course of our lives. But we can sometimes detect the gentle whisper within the fray which might orient us to our deeper selves and better lights. Beyond the storm, there is the peace of a new morning of divine mercy and truth.

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The Rev. Dr. Joseph Schaller is the assisting priest at St. Peter’s Church.

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